GRATEFUL…

By Brad Durham

I am grateful for people allowing me to interview them and share some of their views and stories. The McMinnville Introspection series taught me a lot about the town I was born and raised in during my early youth. There are many things to like about McMinnville. There are a lot of good people in McMinnville.

The most viewed letter that I posted this year was the story about Sable Winfree’s dismissal from the Warren County High School Lady Pioneer basketball team. The story has received 11,400 views on my website. Apparently, many people in McMinnville are interested in what happened to Sable Winfree last week. This letter has received over 10 times as many views as my previous most-viewed letter.

How does a coach and principal suspend Sable Winfree on a Monday afternoon, and then the coach plays her in the fourth quarter of a game that night? Every coach knows that when you play a player in a game that you effectively burn that player’s eligibility. Was that something that was done intentionally — to burn Winfree’s eligibility so that she could not transfer and finish her senior year of basketball elsewhere?

When I was in high school (Middlesex School, Concord, MA) , the Dean, Brad Kingman, told me in November of my senior year that I should get off campus. He told me that he had been doing his job for a long time, and that if I stayed on campus the next semester, I would get in trouble and expelled. He said that I would destroy my chances of getting into the college I wanted to attend. He told me to do an independent study somewhere else, and graduate in May.

I respected the Dean. He was my math teacher, assistant football coach, and I had babysat his kids. I went to D.C. the next semester and was a page for Congressman Joe L. Evins and an intern for Senator Howard Baker. Although it was tough to leave friends and not play sports, I had great experiences in D.C. I am still grateful to this day that the Dean cared enough about me to push me to make a change. He also wanted to get me out of his hair, but he cared about me and my future. He had a heart-to-heart talk with me.

Why didn’t someone at Warren County High School care enough about Sable Winfree to intercede and give her positive alternatives? And why would a coach play a player while she was suspended? Were there sufficient grounds to kick Sable Winfree off the team? I do not believe so…

I am grateful for the mentors, friends and experiences I have had in my life. I am grateful to live in McMinnville, Tennessee. I am also grateful that I got to watch Sable Winfree play basketball the past three years, and I hope that I get to see her play again in the near future.